The Bouquet Dedication
DECEMBER 19, 2023
The ceremony has come and gone. The butterflies and nerves have disappeared with the fast paced movement of the day, and it's finally time to celebrate this milestone in your life with your closest friends and family. Dinner is over, the cake has been cut, you've danced with the love of your life in front of your loved ones, and now it's time to see which single girl is next to get married.
You grab your bouquet and head to the center of the dance floor where the DJ has all of the single ladies line up in anticipation. You turn your back, swing the flowers overhead, and then stop with a smile. The DJ hands you the mic, and you turn towards the crowd and say "just kidding" --
You begin to talk about all of the wonderful people who have helped create an effortless day: your maid of honor her leadership efforts, your family for all of the help, and your friends for the love and support -- but there's one person in particular you want shout praises to: your mother.
You talk about what a rock and great role model she has been; how you wouldn't be the woman you are today without her. She turns red, trying to hold back the tears while holding onto every sweet word. You begin to walk toward her and announce to the crowd that because of the beautiful and wonderful person she is, you couldn't think of a better way to show your appreciation than creating a special moment just for her. You hand her your bouquet.
Some people might be curious as to why you would do this. What is the special meaning behind dedicating your bouquet to your mother?
Fathers get the privilege, traditionally, of walking their daughters down the aisle, giving them away, and getting that special father/daughter dance...but what about moms? Between the sacrafices and years of work moms put into raising and caring for their kids, shouldn't they get a moment to be celebrated for their efforts in one of the most special moments in their daughter's lives?
If you're a bride looking to include your mother on your wedding day, this is such a simple, yet deeply emotional way to do it.